Can the case ever be made for licking someone’s ass without a dental dam? (and lets face it.. dental dams are pretty unpopular)
Like if you just got out of the shower…
Although I appreciate it when someone goes through the extra trouble of licking my ass, would it be better for me to just say “Hey, I haven’t washed my ass since this morning and I don’t know what is lurking about down there.”?
I view life, including sex, as pretty risky. It is all in how much you want to risk for what. We all take risks every day and for some things we choose to limit the risks and for others we don’t. Driving or riding in a car is very risky, but we limit those risks by wearing seatbelts, owning cars with airbags, and abiding by the rules of the road. Now some people like to go really fast and that is taking a risk, but to them it is worth it.
The important part is knowing what risks you’re taking, feeling like the risk is worth it, and not risking others without their consent. No one should take risks if they don’t fully understand what is at risk.
So, what is at risk if one licks an anus without a barrier?
- E. Coli – This is a bacteria that lives in your intestines, but can get you pretty sick if you ingest someone else’s. However, if you have been together for awhile this becomes a lot lower of a risk because after awhile you start to share the same intestinal bacteria with your partner.
- Hepatitis – No fun liver disease.
- Parasites – Think worms and such.
- STIs – The same stuff you can get from any sort of unprotected sex.
The better you know your partner, the longer you’ve been together, and the better your hygiene the less risks there are. It is a must to jump in the shower to wash right beforehand at the very least. However, washing between your cheeks will lower the risk of E. Coli, but not necessarily the others.
So are you and your partner willing to take this risk? That is up to you and your partner. I cannot condone any type of unprotected sex, but I feel that people have to evaluate their own risks and figure out what is important to them. If the above risks are not worth it to you or your partner then use a dental dam, a cut up condom, or a piece of saran wrap.