Comments on: Blowjob Tips! http://askgarnet.com/2009/12/28/blowjob-tips/ Queer sex educator embarking on a new adventure with her wife and two cats. Sat, 04 Feb 2012 17:25:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Garnet Joyce http://askgarnet.com/2009/12/28/blowjob-tips/comment-page-1/#comment-1697 Garnet Joyce Wed, 22 Dec 2010 17:10:29 +0000 http://askgarnet.com/?p=180#comment-1697 Great point Phil. Everyone is different Great point Phil. Everyone is different

]]> By: Phil http://askgarnet.com/2009/12/28/blowjob-tips/comment-page-1/#comment-1695 Phil Tue, 21 Dec 2010 20:00:13 +0000 http://askgarnet.com/?p=180#comment-1695 Just one point though - there is an impression/assumption out there that ALL men love blowjobs. It's not true! But because of the popular perception it's hard to convince women you don't like them. I actually had to sit my my wife down and promise me to never go down on me again. She never breaks her promises so when I made her do that she realised I was serious. I was her first male partner (out of about a dozen or so) who didn't like it. I'm not the only one. One of my friends was telling me that he doesn't like it either. I just wanted it out there that if your guy tells you that there's no need to go down, or that he doesn't like BJ's, he simply doesn't like them. It isn't you and it isn't the way you are doing it, so don't labor the point by trying to perfect it. Instead ask him what he does like. Just one point though – there is an impression/assumption out there that ALL men love blowjobs. It’s not true! But because of the popular perception it’s hard to convince women you don’t like them. I actually had to sit my my wife down and promise me to never go down on me again. She never breaks her promises so when I made her do that she realised I was serious. I was her first male partner (out of about a dozen or so) who didn’t like it.

I’m not the only one. One of my friends was telling me that he doesn’t like it either. I just wanted it out there that if your guy tells you that there’s no need to go down, or that he doesn’t like BJ’s, he simply doesn’t like them. It isn’t you and it isn’t the way you are doing it, so don’t labor the point by trying to perfect it.

Instead ask him what he does like.

]]> By: Thomas B. http://askgarnet.com/2009/12/28/blowjob-tips/comment-page-1/#comment-1073 Thomas B. Thu, 16 Sep 2010 00:43:41 +0000 http://askgarnet.com/?p=180#comment-1073 Good article! And from my perspective, dead on. Good article! And from my perspective, dead on.

]]> By: Phil http://askgarnet.com/2009/12/28/blowjob-tips/comment-page-1/#comment-192 Phil Tue, 23 Feb 2010 14:16:22 +0000 http://askgarnet.com/?p=180#comment-192 Any chance of giving us poor guys (and maybe some girls) a heads up on how to return the favour? I love to go down on my wife, and she enjoys it but the more tips the better. For instance - I heard about this way of giving her oral on her vulva but avoiding touching her clitoris until she is on the brink. Then go for the clitoris and she will cum really hard. But I don't know the name or the actual technique. Other ideas would be most welcome. Any chance of giving us poor guys (and maybe some girls) a heads up on how to return the favour? I love to go down on my wife, and she enjoys it but the more tips the better.

For instance – I heard about this way of giving her oral on her vulva but avoiding touching her clitoris until she is on the brink. Then go for the clitoris and she will cum really hard. But I don’t know the name or the actual technique.

Other ideas would be most welcome.

]]> By: Tuck http://askgarnet.com/2009/12/28/blowjob-tips/comment-page-1/#comment-169 Tuck Mon, 28 Dec 2009 01:47:17 +0000 http://askgarnet.com/?p=180#comment-169 Great article, thanks!! Great article, thanks!!

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