http://askgarnet.com/2010/03/09/tyingtheknot/ Queer sex educator embarking on a new adventure with her wife and two cats. Sat, 04 Feb 2012 17:25:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://askgarnet.com/2010/03/09/tyingtheknot/comment-page-1/#comment-209 DominaDoll Wed, 10 Mar 2010 00:49:56 +0000 http://askgarnet.com/?p=402#comment-209 Great advice! I've been in a relationship for 15 yrs and married for 12 of those years. I think the most important part to finding a "life" partner is compatibility. Not just sexually either. In all ways of the relationship. My partner is the rock, whereas I see myself as the air, so we compliment each other's strengths and weaknesses, and like you Garnet, were able to heal each other after hard times. We are also best friends, so again compatible that way. And, to some people getting married is only a piece of paper, so it depends a lot on your values towards it as to whether it is right for you and your partner. We got married on a whim kind of, after three years of living together, before which we were dead set against marriage. it just suddenly felt right to use, so we did it. Great advice! I’ve been in a relationship for 15 yrs and married for 12 of those years. I think the most important part to finding a “life” partner is compatibility. Not just sexually either. In all ways of the relationship. My partner is the rock, whereas I see myself as the air, so we compliment each other’s strengths and weaknesses, and like you Garnet, were able to heal each other after hard times. We are also best friends, so again compatible that way. And, to some people getting married is only a piece of paper, so it depends a lot on your values towards it as to whether it is right for you and your partner. We got married on a whim kind of, after three years of living together, before which we were dead set against marriage. it just suddenly felt right to use, so we did it.

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