Today is my wife’s birthday and because our lives are so hectic right now and we’re trying to save money we’ve forgone the bday presents this year. So I thought that instead of buying her something I would write her a love letter. If you’re here for the sex advice skip this entry, but if you like reading about people in love or are just interested in us as people, feel free to read on.
To my wife
I love you so much. We have experienced so much together over the past four years. We met, we fucked, we became good friends, and eventually we admitted our feelings for one another. Once the feelings were released it all went pretty fast. We fell in love, moved in together, got engaged, and married. Not every moment in our lives has been perfect, but I could not have picked a more perfect partner to share my life with. In some ways we are the same person and in others we are polar opposites, but that is what keeps life interesting. But even though we don’t always understand each other, we always try to and that is what is more important.
You are my snuggle monster, my carrier of heavy things, my 1 day of relief from cooking dinner- even though you hate to cook, my provider of warmth or cold depending on what is needed, my pedicurist, my tailor, my therapist, my sounding board, my protector, my Russian nesting doll of crazy, my proofreader, my cheerleader, my toughguy butch who is really just a squishy soft warm loving person on the inside, and so much more. You always strive to make my life easier, more comfortable, and happier and you have made my life richer in so many ways.
Every day I am surprised that I was able to land such a funny, intelligent, interesting, person who shares so many of my values in life. I am so proud of you and your accomplishments. You are going to do great things in life and I’m really looking forward to being able to see them firsthand.
The past four years have been amazing and I cannot wait to see what the next four years bring. I am really looking forward to the next chapter in our life. I cannot wait to embark upon this next adventure with you.
I love you honey. Happy Birthday.
Also, there will be a special birthday dinner :)




















That absolutely melted my heart. I wrote Jed a letter much like that for our first anniversary. It’s so wonderful when you find someone who fits so perfectly with you. Not to mention, you guys are a GORGEOUS couple!
Garnet, I’m soooo happy the two of you found each other! I hope your adventure out west is so rewarding and exciting and relaxing all at the same time! Someday you’ll live in a castle and have a moat, until then, enjoy the beach!
I love this. It’s just beautiful. Also, she shares my father’s birthday. Apparently, only cool people are born august 3rd.