I love my Hitachi Magic Wand. It always gets the job done whether I’m in the mood or not. In fact, I can be thinking about all the things I need to do the next day and still have an orgasm if it’s between my thighs. This is actually a problem. I can see how many would not think it so. Especially since there are so many women who have such a difficult time cumming. But my libido has nose dived and I can no longer have an orgasm without a Hitachi. I need to stop focusing on my day and start focusing on sex. Plus, there are so many other fantastic sex toys out there that I really feel like I’m missing out. I mean I buy sex toys for a living, shouldn’t I be enjoying more than just one vibrator?
I’ve toyed with the idea for awhile … a long while. But now I finally have the motivation to do something about it. I’m going to go 31 days – all of May – without using my Hitachi. But that’s just the first part of the challenge because without much of a libido I could easily go 31 days without masturbating. That wouldn’t really do anyone any good. May is Masturbation Month so in honor of said month I will be masturbating EVERY DAY but WITHOUT my beloved Hitachi. I expect it will be frustrating at first, but I must trek on. And even if I’m having sex I will not allow myself the use of my Hitachi. My goal is to retrain both my brain and my cunt. It won’t be easy, but with a supply of excellent toys I think I can do it. And heck, if it goes well I hope to use these toys continuously even after the 31 days are over.
The toys I will be using that are in my arsenal include:
- The Wahl – a favorite amongst people in the know. I actually started out with this kind of vibrator which probably explains my love for power.
- The Eroscillator – one of the ugliest sex toys ever made unless you love steam punk, but also one of the most beloved. Unfortunately, mine is not as powerful as the one linked to, but I’m hoping it will still be able to get the job done.
- Lelo Siri – Lelo’s most powerful vibrator is also oddly enough their most affordable.
- Pink Inspire – a powerful CalEx wand with some intriguing silicone attachments. A shout out to my roomie, Lucid Obsession, from the Momentum Convention last month for sending one my way.
I would like to add one or two more toys to the mix and I have some contenders in mind, but I’d love to hear your suggestions in the comments. Let me know what toys you love. The requirements: they MUST be both powerful and rumbly and it would be nice if they weren’t super heavy since I do have arthritis in my wrists.
Once I have all of the toys I will draw up a schedule of which days I will be using each one so that I don’t just start substituting one for my Hitachi and give them all an equal and fair shot. I’ll be sharing my thoughts, frustrations, and triumphs on my experience of going Hitachi-less and also a bit about the toys themselves.
And heck even if this challenge doesn’t work it’ll at least give me an even deeper love for my Hitachi.
Sounds hard! Good luck! I would toss the Mystic Wand into the mix as well.
I have the Mystic Wand, but it never really impressed me. Mostly I just don’t like the ridges on the head. They feel uncomfortable no matter how much lube I use. I liked it a bit better with the attachment, but then it becomes a bit cumbersome just for a clit vibe.
I’m a guy but I can still relate to this issue.
I know a lot of guys that masturbate to hard with their hands so they lose the sensitivity they once had making it really difficult to come. It easily turns into a vicious circle. Some guys can’t come during regular sex because of this “Death Grip” syndrome. I found the Fleshlight to be the best tool to use to regain that sensitivity.
Anyways, I hope can hold out it will definitively be worth it in the end.
Be strong & Good luck!