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I was recently contacted by Undercover Condoms because they wanted to let you know that they are a great place to buy safer sex supplies online. They asked me to review their website which I do not do for free. I review products for free because I receive the product for my time and effort. For website reviews I do require compensation for the amount of time I put into it. However, my opinions are genuine and cannot be bought.
I asked twitter and facebook followers what was important to them in an online safer sex store. The responses mostly included free or reasonable shipping costs, wide selection (something they wouldn’t be able to get at the drugstore), discreet shipping, easy to navigate site, and customer reviews. I’ve combined that with my own ideas on what makes a safer sex supplier website great to come up with this review.
Hi !
I never had a girlfriend and have sex. And it is really hard for me. Could you, plz, advice me how I can put the condom in that it will last good in the intercourse? Also, I would like to know can the vagina be so tight or so dry the condom can fell out from the penis ? I am 24 yrs old and never had sex with anyone. It is hard. I masturbate every day and I would like to find a good looking lady like you. When I had an opportunity for sex, should I do it ? Can you give a advice for a good artificial vagina for masturbation ?
Whoa whoa whoa. That is a lot of questions right there. It will take me a few blog posts to answer all of these so stay tuned for all of the answers over the next few days.
First, let’s talk about condoms. Putting a condom on correctly is really important so here’s how you do it:
Check the expiration date printed on the condom to make sure it is still good. If it is not, throw it out and get a new one. If it’s good, move on to step 2.
Carefully tear the condom wrapper open. Do NOT use scissors or anything sharp as you could make a hole in the condom.
Unroll the condom a little bit to figure out which way it goes.
Squeeze a drop or two of a water or silicone based lube into the condom. This will make it more pleasurable for the wearer.
Squeeze the first 1/4-1/2 inch of the condom to make sure there is room for semen to go when you ejaculate.
If you have foreskin, pull it down gently so that it is under the head of your penis and then roll the condom down the shaft of the penis.
Rub some water or silicone lube on the outside of the condom.
Stick in hole and thrust in and out.
After you ejaculate pull out immediately before your dick gets soft. Make sure you hold onto the base of the condom as you pull out.
Then just throw away. If you want to have sex again use a new condom.
Here’s a demo video I made because sometimes it’s just easier to show than tell.
Many condoms come prelubed, but adding a little extra lube can never hurt and in fact will often make sex more pleasurable for both partners. It will also keep the sex safer since the condom will be less likely to dry out and break. Latex can actually dry a woman’s natural lubrication out.
Condoms can fall off. It isn’t usually because the vagina is too tight though. It may happen if it dries out, but it can also happen just from the friction of thrusting or if the condom is too big. Guys, don’t pretend your cock is bigger than it is because condoms that are too big are more likely to break and/or slip off. Get a condom that fits. If you are worried about slippage I suggest using a cheap cock ring around the base of the condom to keep it on.
I love seeing how people get to my site. And sometimes they inadvertently find my site by asking a question I never answer here. That makes me sad :( So in the interest of getting people’s questions answered I will respond to questions I see people googling to get here.
Q: Can a cock ring get stuck in a vagina?
A: Although not extremely likely if you’re wearing the cock ring correctly, it is possible that it could slide down the cock and get lodged up in the woman’s vagina. Luckily, you can’t really lose things in a vagina. So if this does happen to you, lend your lady a hand and go fishing for it. Make sure both of you remain calm as it will make the whole situation go a lot faster and easier. If women can put in and take out a NuvaRing every few weeks, you can definitely get that cock ring out.
Hi! A friend just turned me onto your site and it’s already been really helpful! But I noticed that you don’t seem to have any entries about cock rings… I’ve seen some in stores that are stretchy, others that are leather, but what do you think is best? Also, I used to think that cock rings were just for keeping a man from cumming, but apparently there’s more to it than that? Please, enlighten me!
Cock Curious
I’m glad you’re enjoying the site and thanks so much for the question. To all of you readers out there, if you think there is something missing from my blog, please don’t hesitate to send an email letting me know what you’d like to see more of.
Yes, cock rings can help to keep a man from ejaculating as soon as he might normally, but they also have lots and lots of other uses too! And they also come in a number of different materials from stretchy jellies and elastomers to rigid rubber and steel.
My boss over at Early to Bed recently made a video about cock rings so I figured that would be a great way to share the info you’re looking for.
There are a couple things I would like to add to what she said. First of all, the leather vibrating cock ring she shows can also be used around the testicles as well as the shaft.
Also, a great beginner cock ring is this bolo tie style cock ring. It is really easy to put on and adjust and is pretty inexpensive. It is a great way for men to figure out if they like cock rings or not.
Finally, I’d like to add that there is one more use for cock rings not mentioned by my boss. Sure they’re great at making erections last longer, making them harder, helping to delay ejaculation, and stimulating the clit, but they’re also great for keeping condoms on. If you find that you have difficulty with condom slippage, cock rings are great for keeping a condom secure. This can be especially helpful with polyurethane condoms which often have slippage issues, men whose penises are smaller than average, and sex toys that don’t quite have the size and shape of a penis but you would prefer to have sheathed for hygienic reasons.
As far as what I think is best, well I feel that is a matter of opinion. But I do stress that if the man in question is new to using a cock ring, he should use one that is easy to remove if necessary. So it should be stretchy, adjustable, or easy to cut off. Stay away from metal! I’d even recommend not using the rubber o-ring style ones right off the bat as they can be difficult to cut off if you’re panicked at all.
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