Comments for Ask Garnet

Comment on Day 4: A Chore by Garnet Joyce

Garnet Joyce — Sun, 06 May 2012 02:19:18 +0000

Nope, I unfortunately have the weaker one.

Comment on Day 4: A Chore by Dangerous Lilly

Dangerous Lilly — Sat, 05 May 2012 19:43:11 +0000

I can’t keep the two straight…is that the more powerful one? I can orgasm fairly easily with the more powerful Erosc but only using the fingertip attachment. For some reason none of the other ones do it for me.

Comment on Anal Sex for Beginners by Christopher

Christopher — Sat, 05 May 2012 18:11:50 +0000

First of all you cant enter her ass with your penis first time. You must try with something smaller firts, like finger, or sex toy, or if you don’t like that idea penis is ok, but very very slowly. Stuff you need: baby ass wet wipes (if shit happen, and its good to have them near), lube (water based, makes less mess), baby oil (helps in relaxation and its fun) and patience.

Comment on 31 Day No Hitachi Challenge by Fleshlight Dude

Fleshlight Dude — Wed, 25 Apr 2012 14:07:00 +0000

I’m a guy but I can still relate to this issue.

I know a lot of guys that masturbate to hard with their hands so they lose the sensitivity they once had making it really difficult to come. It easily turns into a vicious circle. Some guys can’t come during regular sex because of this “Death Grip” syndrome. I found the Fleshlight to be the best tool to use to regain that sensitivity.

Anyways, I hope can hold out it will definitively be worth it in the end.

Be strong & Good luck!

Comment on Wife Unsure About Sex With Others by Phil

Phil — Mon, 23 Apr 2012 13:15:11 +0000

Final update on this. Poly relationships are very hard and it all fell apart. My wife and I are now a couple again with her ex-boyfriend moving out. We working through a very confusing experience.

Comment on 31 Day No Hitachi Challenge by Garnet Joyce

Garnet Joyce — Thu, 19 Apr 2012 16:37:08 +0000

I have the Mystic Wand, but it never really impressed me. Mostly I just don’t like the ridges on the head. They feel uncomfortable no matter how much lube I use. I liked it a bit better with the attachment, but then it becomes a bit cumbersome just for a clit vibe.

Comment on 31 Day No Hitachi Challenge by Epiphora

Epiphora — Tue, 17 Apr 2012 20:20:20 +0000

Sounds hard! Good luck! I would toss the Mystic Wand into the mix as well.

Comment on HPV by attract a girl

attract a girl — Sun, 08 Apr 2012 18:44:33 +0000

My brother recommended I would possibly like this website. He used to be totally right. This publish actually made my day. You cann’t imagine just how a lot time I had spent for this information! Thank you!

Comment on Wife Unsure About Sex With Others by Phil

Phil — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 15:23:35 +0000

Come back Garnet – we miss you!

Another update. Here’s some more advice for others thinking of going down this path. Sit down and work out boundaries and agree on rules to support those boundaries, both yours and your partner’s. We never did this.

Her boyfriend has moved in and sleeps with my wife in our marital bed while I’m currently sleeping on a futon sofa. At first it was one or two weeks a night but this past week we all agreed it should be permanent. The compromise is that he gave the okay that my wife could sleep with me. It makes sense because he is a student and by staying with us he doesn’t have to work.

I can’t say it’s been easy having him move in. I started regretting the whole thing until the other morning. They were eating breakfast quietly while I was getting ready for work. They looked into each others eyes, smiled leaned in and kissed.

Seeing that made me feel happy and calm. I know now we are making the right choices. I have to admit, I’m really looking forward to sleeping with my wife. I’ve gone without sex for 2 months and I’m craving her hot little body.

Comment on Wife Unsure About Sex With Others by Phil

Phil — Wed, 14 Mar 2012 21:40:31 +0000

Another update. There’s just a whole bunch of stuff I never fully thought through at the outset.

As their relationship has progressed he isn’t okay with her sleeping with other men. So my wife hasn’t slept with me for a month. She lets me help hervpick out clothes and lingerie for her dates but that’s the only time I even see her naked.

The biggest thing is that other people in my life are becoming aware of what’s happening. My wife has told her friends about this and one of my family members saw my wife and her boyfriend shopping – holding hands and flirting with each other. It’s only a matter of time before all our friends and our families know.

It isn’t just the big stuff. My wife is seeing all the latest movies with her boyfriend, so I either miss out or have to take myself or go with friends but without her.

My wife and I are still very close, and we have talked all this out. despite all of this we are both very happy. We are forging on and seeing where this takes us.